To tell or not to tell....
that is the question.
So if/when I get pregnant again, do I tell family immediately? Why don't people tell right away anyway? Is it because of miscarriage? Probably.
But when I had my miscarriage, it was nice to have people there for you.
I PROBABLY SHOULDN'T MASK MY FEELINGS
So if I don't tell immediately, and I have a {gulp} miscarriage, I have to go through it pretty much alone...obviously I would eventually tell but still. The thing about it is, is that the people I surround myself with are in this journey with me. Do they have a right to know if 'it' worked? I swore to myself after the D&C, I would never tell until I was 12+ weeks.
Maybe I will do that...
but maybe I won't
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I've never had a miscarriage, but after my best friend's m/c, she didn't tell anyone until after 12 weeks, and was very strict about it. I feel a little like you: I think I would need the love, support, and sympathy.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't tell I'm going through your garbage on Monday night. You should tell. We are here with you every step and seriously, how can you NOT tell. I have a system figured out. I figure you'll tell me if your not pregnant. If you don't tell me your not pregnant than that means your pregnant. See, I'm a clever little rascal.
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